2011年1月17日星期一

Perfect match is the most vulnerable of marriage!


"Perfect match" natural cooperation. Is the dream of many young marriage Huaichun combination of thousands of years are enduring, and also interpretation of the numerous stories of Beauty.

To a modern, perfect match, Romantic many young people choosing a partner is still the first choice. However, over time, and with this choice is not much advantage, and even turned into a disadvantage. Over the years, just to keep the entertainment in the Romantic interpretation of the shifting alliances, Luo and Li Lie, Yang and Tsai Chin, Ao and Hu Yin-meng, Jonathan Lee and Sandy, and so on, which did not fly together, play duck water, in the end, not all "with the forest birds" into "sub-Gucci"? Are the envy of fans around the world had even allowed to stay saliva of the "century couple," Lawrence - Oliver and Vivien Leigh, in the two decades after Xiangruyimo had to stage a "farewell Hamlet Ophelia," the love tragedy, not to mention others .

Now that choice has become buried and with the incentive of a marital crisis, seen on marriage "midlife crisis" is a direct response to this combination. We know that Lang was female appearance, independent of the parties to the marriage of two different main body of a dominant identity, Lang was the general cause by men, money and status is reflected, while the female looks should not say more.

However, a long time, we have neglected the basic properties of these two factors, this is Lang's is by just acquired, is a person's intelligence plus effort to obtain, and it's an important feature is that over time goes on, but more and more increase in direct proportion with the time; and female appearance of the landscape, is a congenital factor is the gift of the father and mother, one of the biggest feature is the appearance over time become increasingly attenuated and finally disappears, people are not have a joke that "beauty and ugliness are the same 50-year-old woman", that is, to a certain age a woman is no beauty and ugliness of the divided. In particular, some vase-like beauty, counting on the beautifully restored, and satisfied with peace of mind of life, the result color at any time decline.

Men and women only appearance, as time goes on, both directions toward the development of an upward development, a growing recession, generally to 45 years old, this large peak for the scissors.

In marriage, never to speak to the other, a difference means that there are flaws. Today, more than 40 years of age in the men's success in their careers, virtually became the object of pursuit of many young girls, sometimes men, although not intended for, but, unable to withstand the attack erotic shells, many Successful men were demon who won the gucci bags. This is as long as you look around the men who have money and rank, there are several live together also, and first wife is not difficult to judge.
Although there with any kind of marital instability, but relatively speaking, the smaller the gap between the two conditions, the stability of their marriage stronger. An ordinary man to get a flat appearance to the old woman might be together. In turn, the greater the gap, especially with the widening gap over time, then surely lurking crisis. Compared to other combination, "perfect match" may be a combination of the worst.

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